Tacoma Nursing & Rehab Center

Regarding listed residential care manager


Narcissistic relationship patterns and tactics include:

Lovebombing: Unusual early high rate of contact flattery attention and texts.
This is basic conditioning and is used to get you used to the dopamine and oxytocin increases that come with such romantic attention.
Her sexual biology allows her to “squirt.”
Many toic people use this ability to tell a man they are the first to have done this, which manipulates them into believing they are wanted and attractive to some special degree.
Manipulation of all manners is included during this first stage.
Your boundaries are felt out and tested and broken to feel how weak of a target you are.
Your only real weakness required is basic empathy and a desire to see the best in others.

Devaluing:
During devaluing the toxic person will begin limiting contact. Not answering texts at the same rate, not answering calls but then you answer theirs when they call. They are in control which they like but then become bored for the thrill of new targets.
You’ll grow suspicious and they start using your reactions to show others in order to imply and accuse you of being needy controlling or jealous. Really, all you are is reacting to the feelings they always incite in others.
They start to smear campaign and lie about you to their friends and yours. The level which depends on their level of sadistic pleasure they derive from intentionally isolating and emotionally draining you.

Discard: if you aren’t already on the way out.
The narcissist will let you know they don’t want you anymore.
Either breaking up or getting you to break up with them.
They will invariably always taunt you and harass you in some manner.

Hoovering and reaching out to try and be friends after is simply out of fear you will expose them.

With the individual listed above, don’t worry about exposing them. One target they really fucked with and crossed the line in a way only her and the target know.

This target is fine facing reputational damage and social ostracism in order to help make sure nobody else in a vulnerable position falls for the trap.

Psychopathic traits: blunted emotional response to events that should promote fear and anxiety.

Mimicks every range of emotion and mirrors morals and values but any conversation beyond the surface regarding moral consistency and history of repairing or growth as a person will reveal the deception.

It does not take a skilled planned investigation to reveal these people for what they are, it only requires you care that people aren’t gaining ANYTHING from the intentional deception of others in every facet of their lives.

If you care about the dangers of these types of people, you’ll understand why avoiding them is your best bet.

Personality disordered people are incapable of repairing their fundamental lack of empathy. Psychopaths specifically cannot reverse the frontal cortex / amygdala defects on any level.

They can only learn and adapt to various social situations in the ways they are limited to.

It's not 1 star but 0 is not an option!!

Mom is currently there. We've nicknamed it "The Crack House". It smells like a cat box!

We had someone visit our mom and tell us: "She is not clean, her food is cold, and she's half dressed."

The last time I visited she was cold with no blanket on the bed. I had to track down a nurse to get a blanket. She was hungry and I asked for a shake and they gave me frozen ones that she couldn't drink. The nurses couldn't give a @@@@. Can't get her a haircut. I paid for one 3 weeks ago. You'd think that would be an easy task....someone just comes in to do it on Mondays. If you don't constantly ask for things, they will just do the bare minimum. I've talked to other family members, they say the same things as we're seeing this last 2 months. Pick a different place for your family member!!